Who Is Afraid of Love? Adam Smith and the Rational Analysis of Bonding

<p dir="ltr">For Smith, love inextricably involves negative feelings, what this paper calls “bonding cost”. The bonding cost can be moderate. However, it can easily become excessive, taking the form of turbulent emotions, obsessions, vulnerabilities, and ego-centrism. Hence, it is no...

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Applied economics
Human society
Sociology
Philosophy and religious studies
Philosophy
Psychology
Cognitive and computational psychology
Social and personality psychology
bonding benefit
bonding cost
emotional turbulence (heartaches)
excessive love
excessive pitch
healthy love
love- vs. substantive-based preferences
obsession
self-indulgence
sympathy and fellow-feeling
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description <p dir="ltr">For Smith, love inextricably involves negative feelings, what this paper calls “bonding cost”. The bonding cost can be moderate. However, it can easily become excessive, taking the form of turbulent emotions, obsessions, vulnerabilities, and ego-centrism. Hence, it is no wonder that Smith is highly critical of love. However, paradoxically, Smith also embraces love, as it nurtures individual development and family warmth. Should we therefore conclude that Smith is inconsistent? Not necessarily if we introduce rational choice theory to the analysis of love and bonding—which Smith calls “mutual sympathy.” Rational choice theory allows us to identify the suboptimal level of love, namely, when bonding costs (i.e., obsessions and emotional upheavals) <i>exceed</i> the benefits of love (the nurture of individual development and family warmth). Otherwise, when the benefits of love equal bonding costs, the level of love is optimal. Furthermore, another thesis of the paper, the proposed rational analysis of bonding should not mean that bonding and material/substantive motives/preferences are commensurable. The distinction of love-based preferences (bonding) from substantive-based preferences (material satisfaction) challenges us to identify exactly how love differs from substantive satisfaction—a challenge that this paper undertakes.</p><h2>Other Information</h2><p dir="ltr">Published in: Theoria<br>License: <a href="https://creativecommons.org/licenses/by/4.0" target="_blank">https://creativecommons.org/licenses/by/4.0</a><br>See article on publisher's website: <a href="https://doi.org/10.1111/theo.70022" target="_blank">https://doi.org/10.1111/theo.70022</a></p>
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spelling Who Is Afraid of Love? Adam Smith and the Rational Analysis of BondingElias L. Khalil (20518877)EconomicsApplied economicsHuman societySociologyPhilosophy and religious studiesPhilosophyPsychologyCognitive and computational psychologySocial and personality psychologybonding benefitbonding costemotional turbulence (heartaches)excessive loveexcessive pitchhealthy lovelove- vs. substantive-based preferencesobsessionself-indulgencesympathy and fellow-feeling<p dir="ltr">For Smith, love inextricably involves negative feelings, what this paper calls “bonding cost”. The bonding cost can be moderate. However, it can easily become excessive, taking the form of turbulent emotions, obsessions, vulnerabilities, and ego-centrism. Hence, it is no wonder that Smith is highly critical of love. However, paradoxically, Smith also embraces love, as it nurtures individual development and family warmth. Should we therefore conclude that Smith is inconsistent? Not necessarily if we introduce rational choice theory to the analysis of love and bonding—which Smith calls “mutual sympathy.” Rational choice theory allows us to identify the suboptimal level of love, namely, when bonding costs (i.e., obsessions and emotional upheavals) <i>exceed</i> the benefits of love (the nurture of individual development and family warmth). Otherwise, when the benefits of love equal bonding costs, the level of love is optimal. Furthermore, another thesis of the paper, the proposed rational analysis of bonding should not mean that bonding and material/substantive motives/preferences are commensurable. The distinction of love-based preferences (bonding) from substantive-based preferences (material satisfaction) challenges us to identify exactly how love differs from substantive satisfaction—a challenge that this paper undertakes.</p><h2>Other Information</h2><p dir="ltr">Published in: Theoria<br>License: <a href="https://creativecommons.org/licenses/by/4.0" target="_blank">https://creativecommons.org/licenses/by/4.0</a><br>See article on publisher's website: <a href="https://doi.org/10.1111/theo.70022" target="_blank">https://doi.org/10.1111/theo.70022</a></p>2025-05-08T00:00:00ZTextJournal contributioninfo:eu-repo/semantics/publishedVersiontextcontribution to journal10.1111/theo.70022https://figshare.com/articles/journal_contribution/Who_Is_Afraid_of_Love_Adam_Smith_and_the_Rational_Analysis_of_Bonding/28962710CC BY 4.0info:eu-repo/semantics/openAccessoai:figshare.com:article/289627102025-05-08T00:00:00Z
spellingShingle Who Is Afraid of Love? Adam Smith and the Rational Analysis of Bonding
Elias L. Khalil (20518877)
Economics
Applied economics
Human society
Sociology
Philosophy and religious studies
Philosophy
Psychology
Cognitive and computational psychology
Social and personality psychology
bonding benefit
bonding cost
emotional turbulence (heartaches)
excessive love
excessive pitch
healthy love
love- vs. substantive-based preferences
obsession
self-indulgence
sympathy and fellow-feeling
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title Who Is Afraid of Love? Adam Smith and the Rational Analysis of Bonding
title_full Who Is Afraid of Love? Adam Smith and the Rational Analysis of Bonding
title_fullStr Who Is Afraid of Love? Adam Smith and the Rational Analysis of Bonding
title_full_unstemmed Who Is Afraid of Love? Adam Smith and the Rational Analysis of Bonding
title_short Who Is Afraid of Love? Adam Smith and the Rational Analysis of Bonding
title_sort Who Is Afraid of Love? Adam Smith and the Rational Analysis of Bonding
topic Economics
Applied economics
Human society
Sociology
Philosophy and religious studies
Philosophy
Psychology
Cognitive and computational psychology
Social and personality psychology
bonding benefit
bonding cost
emotional turbulence (heartaches)
excessive love
excessive pitch
healthy love
love- vs. substantive-based preferences
obsession
self-indulgence
sympathy and fellow-feeling